idlewyle

i wonder how late i am in learning about the friendster blog themes. i just found out about it today. why have friendster come up with this so late? i would have kept my blog here.

could have.

or maybe not still.

Perhaps only a few knew that I loved Eraserheads.
Being a praning probinsyana, the only gig I managed to watch them live was at a Cervini open house. My pigtails and floral blouse won’t get the pass into Club Dredd and I can’t for the life of me commute to the nearby 70’s bistro.  Seeing the fab four on stage though was one of the highlights of my college days. I wished every time I was walking around UP that I’d see one of them. I clipped every interview and picture of them in magazines and newspapers…although most have been eaten by moths by now. When their egroups was created, I was one of the earliest lurkers there. I rejoiced on the rare times that Rayms or Buddy or Marcus dropped a line. I never saw an entry by Ely though.

When they disbanded I almost cried. And like the rest of their fans, I began to wish that same day that they will reunite,even up until today. A true blue Eraserheads fan will still be wishing, kahit 1 gig lang, for ely , marcus, buddy and rayms to get together again.

However, their individual achievements still make me happy. Amongst all though, Marcus was the one that compelled me to blog in friendster again, if only to help plug his newest album available in the market. hehehe! Feeling close.
Why help him plug? Wala.Gusto ko lang. ‘Ket ba?

Please check out this link:

PHILMUSIC on Marcus Highway

Support the geniuses. Please buy good OPM. heheh!

<—-Marcus looks good when he combs!

<—–this is the album.

A SHOUT OUT TO Beeboi!
Just breaking the silence a bit here in Idlewyle.

How I got across this article, escapes me. I just found it amusing and delightful. For a man, a say, he knows what he is talking about. Why don’t the rest of them follow suit?

How to Charm a Woman

Women are complicated, but some things are universal

By David Wygant

Special to Yahoo! Personals

Updated: Jul 21, 2007

Top 10 ways to charm a woman

1. Be aware.
   This means cracking open more than the sports section on the daily
   paper. Be up on current events and learn the difference between
   feelings, emotions and thoughts. Women are emotional beings and tend to
   think things through.
          
               

                  

                   They are attracted to men who are as smart or smarter               

               

          

          

    

   They are attracted to men who are as smart or smarter than them,
   and your knowledge of worldly matters will demonstrate your
   intelligence.

2. Demonstrate humor. Women love a man who
   can make them laugh. Now don’t fret here if you’re not a stand-up
   comedian. We all have a certain type of humor. You can be dry,
   sarcastic, hilariously funny, quick-witted or dark. Being able to poke
   fun at yourself and just plain old being goofy is a turn-on for women.
   Keep in mind that all women are not attracted to the same type of
   humor, so if you don’t vibe, just walk away and try someone else.
3. Have passion.
   A guy who lives his life with gusto is incredibly appealing. When you
   speak to a woman about your life, your travels, your job, your
   interests, speak with passion. That passion about who you are will turn
   her on instantly. She will start to imagine what it will be like when
   you are involved with her and how passionate you will speak about her.
4. Be considerate.
   Pay attention to the little things and look for opportunities to make
   small gestures that show you care. A simple "How was your day?" and
   being able to listen to her when she wants to discuss something are
   huge. So many men forget about simple things like holding the door,
   paying for her valet or just thanking her for a great time last night.
   Women are all about a guy with manners — she is not attracted to the
   dope who acts like a caveman.
5. Be honest.
          
               

                  

                   Share who you are by telling her something personal               

               

          

          

    

   Share who you are by telling her something personal. Maybe share
   one of your favorite childhood memories or some personal growth that
   you have been going through. Something that will show her that you are
   a trusting and honest person. It also shows that you are a confident
   but vulnerable man. Women love to see the vulnerable side of you. Note:
   Don’t talk about an ex in a bad way here. If you have to talk about an
   ex, do so in a positive manner and share what you learned and how you
   grew from the relationship.

6. Be flexibile. Be open to
   her plans but surprise her with your flexibility. Take charge and
   surprise her with a fun night out. Instead of being the typical guy who
   makes a reservation, think about how you can be the guy who listens to
   her and plans a great date that she did not expect. If you can pull
   this off, she will be open to all sorts of advances from you.
7. Be positive.
   If you are positive about life, it shows in your actions. I always tell
   men to be extra nice to waiters, bartenders and other service people.
   Be a courteous driver when she’s in the car. When you are in line at
   the movies, don’t complain. Look for the humor and try to have fun with
   people all around you. Be positive about everything, and she will find
   you to be very sexy and alluring. No one wants to be with a negative
   hothead.
8. Be balanced. Women love a successful,
   ambitious man. They love that you work hard, but if you constantly put
   work ahead of her she will become turned off. She will start to imagine
   what life with you will be like with her needs being ignored. If you
   are out meeting women to date, you need to balance your life between
   work and play. This will be a major turn-on for her.
9. Have ambition.
   Men who are ambitious about what they do are a turn-on to women. It
   doesn’t matter if you choose to be a rich stock trader or a painter, as
   long as you are passionate about who you are and what you do. If you
   don’t love what you do, find something that really turns you on. You
   can’t attract the woman you want with a negative ambition. Women love a
   man who is the best at what he does.
10. Be attentive. You
    are out with her for the very first time, and she tells you she loves a
    certain type of music. On the next date take her to a lounge that plays
    that type of music. It is all about paying attention to the details and
    working on your listening skills.

months after my so-called self-proclaimed new year, it seems like i didn’t make a better commitment to idlewyle. i haven’t been blogging for a while. although i have made it saner but it’s definitely telling only on minor facets of what i have been going through.

can i then deduce that i am making better commitment to living a life then?

perhaps.

Divine Enlightenment ?

Joe and Jay’s Simone

Hala….
Did I just do that?
Did I just delete two years worth of blog published?

I REALLY just did.

and it is sort of liberating.

THE PLAN:
To make a saner photo blog…perhaps with more things that need not be explicitly said. A blog with post-storm waters and breezier sailings.

THE WISH:
That I shall abide with the basic element of reform….that is to maintain blog’s sane tone. That it shall not be just an avenue for outbursts and wishes unheard of anywhere else.

(Yeah, right.*fingers-crossed*)

So here goes my attempt at keeping a better commitment to idlewyle.